I believe the modern media has radicalised us all, men and women alike, in terms of making the availability of horror the new normal in everything, not just online dating; even in how mundane events are reported. Everything is glamorised and dramatized until "horror is now the baseline". We are expected to take in everybody else’s drama, real and fiction, and stay ‘normal’ ourselves.

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